How to Compare Daycare Costs Between Two Providers

You’ve toured two centres. One quotes $1,395 a month, the other $1,250. The second one is cheaper — $145 a month, $1,740 a year — so that’s settled, right?

Not necessarily. Tuition is the number centres advertise, and it’s the number least likely to decide what you actually pay. Registration fees, supply fees, meal charges, closure days and late-pickup policies routinely swing the comparison by more than the tuition gap does. This guide totals the true year-one cost of both, with a worked example where the ranking flips.

It’s the shopping stage of the wider job of tracking childcare costs in a spreadsheet.

The nine questions to ask on the tour

Write these down and ask every centre the same nine. The answers are the inputs to the comparison:

  1. Monthly tuition, and how it changes as my child moves up an age group.
  2. Registration or enrolment fee — one-time or annual? Refundable?
  3. Annual supply, activity or materials fee — how much, and when is it billed?
  4. Are meals and snacks included, or billed separately? How much?
  5. Are nappies, wipes and formula provided, or do I supply them?
  6. How many days a year are you closed? Public holidays, staff training days, any full-week closure?
  7. What’s the late-pickup fee and how is it calculated — per minute, or per block?
  8. Do I pay tuition for weeks my child is away on holiday or sick?
  9. What have your rate increases been for the last two years?

Question 6 and question 7 are the ones that hide the money.

The worked example

Two centres, one child, full-time. Here’s what the tours turned up.

Provider A — $1,395/month. $250 registration (one-time). $150 annual supply fee. Meals included. Closed 12 days a year. Late pickup $1 per minute. Open 7:00–18:00.

Provider B — $1,250/month. $400 registration (one-time). $200 annual supply fee. Meals billed at $60/month. Closed 18 days a year, including a full week in August. Late pickup $25 per 15 minutes started. Open 7:30–17:30.

Layer 1: the fees you can see

Provider A Provider B
Tuition (12 months) $16,740 $15,000
Registration $250 $400
Annual supply fee $150 $200
Meals included $720
Year-one subtotal $17,140 $16,320

Provider B is $820 cheaper. Less than the $1,740 the tuition gap implied, but still ahead.

Layer 2: closure days

B closes six more days a year than A. If you and your partner can absorb those with paid leave, they cost nothing. If you can’t — and most families can’t absorb all of them — that’s backup care.

Assume $120 a day for backup care (a sitter at roughly $15/hour for a working day):

Provider A Provider B
Subtotal from layer 1 $17,140 $16,320
Extra closure days (6 × $120) $720
Running total $17,140 $17,040

The gap has collapsed from $820 to $100.

Layer 3: late pickup

This is the one nobody models, and for a household with a commute it’s the largest single variable in the whole comparison. Say you’re late by about ten minutes twice a month — realistic if you’re driving from work in traffic. B also closes half an hour earlier, which makes being late meaningfully more likely.

Provider A Provider B
Running total $17,140 $17,040
Late pickup $240 $600
True year-one cost $17,380 $17,640

Provider A is now $260 cheaper — a complete reversal of the $1,740 advantage the sticker price suggested.

What the example is actually teaching

Not “always pick the higher-tuition centre.” The point is that four variables no one puts on a price list — one-off fees, meal billing, closure days and late-fee structure — moved this comparison by $2,000 in relative terms, which is more than the tuition difference. Any of them could have gone the other way. You only find out by totalling them.

The three that most often decide it:

Closure days are pure cash if you don’t have the leave to cover them. Six days is nearly a week of backup care. A centre with a full-week summer closure on top of holidays can be closed 20+ days.

Late-fee structure matters more than the rate. “Per minute” is forgiving; “per block started” is not. $25 per 15-minute block means a two-minute overrun costs $25. If your commute is unpredictable, model this honestly rather than optimistically.

Meals are quietly one of the biggest line items — $60/month is $720 a year, half the tuition gap in the example.

A worksheet you can copy

Build this once and reuse it for every centre you tour. Same rows, one column per provider:

Provider 1 Provider 2 Provider 3
Monthly tuition
× 12 months
Registration fee (one-time)
Annual supply/activity fee
Meals ($/mo × 12)
Nappies/wipes if not provided
Stated year-one cost
Days closed per year
Days you can’t cover with leave
Backup care ($/day × days)
Expected late fees per year
TRUE year-one cost
Opening / closing time
Waiting list
Last two rate increases

Add the non-financial rows underneath — ratios, staff turnover, licensing record, commute time, your gut feeling after the tour. Those decide it in the end. The money columns exist so that when you choose the more expensive centre, you’re doing it knowingly.

Two things that aren’t on the worksheet

Rate increase history. A centre that’s raised fees 6% a year for two years will do it again. Over three years that compounds well past the gap you’re comparing today. Ask, and weight it.

Commute. Fifteen extra minutes each way is roughly 125 hours a year, plus fuel, plus a materially higher chance of those late-pickup fees. It doesn’t go in the total, but it belongs in the decision.

Once you’ve chosen

Keep the comparison sheet. When the annual rate letter arrives, you’ll want the original numbers to see how far things have drifted — and if you tour again in two years, you’ll have a baseline instead of starting from scratch. It also feeds directly into your Dependent Care FSA election, since the FSA-versus-credit decision depends on knowing your real annual spend before open enrolment.

Frequently Asked Questions

What fees should I ask a daycare about besides tuition?

Ask for the registration or enrolment fee, the annual supply or activity fee, whether meals and snacks are included or billed separately, whether nappies and wipes are provided, the late-pickup fee and how it's calculated, the deposit and whether it's refundable, the annual rate-increase history, the number of days closed per year including any full-week summer closure, and the vacation policy — specifically whether you still pay tuition for weeks your child doesn't attend. Those nine answers are what separate the sticker price from the real one.

How many days a year is daycare closed?

It varies widely and it's one of the most expensive variables nobody asks about. Centres commonly close for public holidays plus staff training days, and many close for a full week in summer or between Christmas and New Year. If you can't cover those days with paid leave, each one is a day of paid backup care — so a centre that closes six more days than its competitor can quietly cost several hundred dollars more per year despite advertising lower tuition.

Is a cheaper daycare always cheaper?

No, and the flip is common enough to be worth checking every time. A lower monthly tuition can be offset by a higher registration fee, separately-billed meals, more closure days, a harsher late-pickup policy, or a shorter day that forces you to pay for wraparound care. Total the true year-one cost of both — twelve months of tuition, all one-off and annual fees, meals, expected backup care and realistic late fees — before deciding.

Should I put down a deposit to hold a daycare spot?

Often you have to, because waiting lists in many areas are long, but always ask two questions first: is the deposit refundable if you don't take the place, and is it credited against your first month's tuition or is it an additional charge? A non-refundable, non-credited deposit at two centres while you decide is money gone. Get the answer in writing before you pay.

Know What Childcare Actually Costs You

The Daycare & Childcare Expense Tracker — 9 tabs — a per-child monthly expense log, a side-by-side provider comparison that totals true year-one cost, a Dependent Care FSA tracker with per-paycheck contributions, an FSA vs. tax credit estimator, a babysitter log, a summer camp planner with deposits and balances due, and a nanny share calculator that splits the real employer cost between two families. Works in Microsoft Excel and Google Sheets.

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